Girls am i too ugly and fat to be with an attractive girl?

I'm just not going to be a liar anymore I want to be with an attractive girl but I know my wait and my looks me back what can I do the diet and exercise specifically so I can be able to lose weight fast like 80 pounds within 6 months because all of my friends have hot girlfriends and I idolize guys like Justin Timberlake because he has that confidence and charisma that i need to get pretty girls to like me cause pretty girls have only rated me a 3/10 and [°I am tired of it i just need to get skinner ro be abke to get girls and to be happy with myself im 5'5 and 250lbs here's what I look like just so you can get an idea of what I need to do any help would be appreciated http://m.flickr.com/#/photos/80336496@N08/7570211668/

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Well if I am honest I have to say you are definitely not my type. You are not someone I would want to date pshycally nor mentally.You seem really insecure and that is not a quality streak I look for. It just does not suit guys.I also fine that any man who is too romantic is off putting. My type of guys are slimmer, a bit fairer and with a personality which includes not caring whether girls want to date them or not. I do not like guys who become vexed when a girl does not want to date them.People will not be truthful here, they will have sympathy because they are not great looking themselves, but I am being honest to you, and as a girl I can say most girls would not want to date you because theres tons of other boys out there who can take care of a girl, who do not want to control us, who let us be free and who a feisty, which to me is a turn on.I am not saying your ugly, but to be truthful you are not attractive to me, even if you lose weight (which it seems you should as chubby does not suit guys) it would not make a difference to me. My boys have to be ones I am attracted to, some what slim, fairer and with some rough streaks or some personality which has roughness, we girls like that..I dislike guys who are sensitive, insecure and who got nothing better to do then come on Yahoo/Answers talking about their girl problems, how will they cope with a 1 on 1 boy fight? or if a girl took the piss out of him? is he going to start crying? I just cannot stand boys like that, but I must admit you are a tiny minority and am so glad there are not many guys like you out there.You can call me shallow but I have my preference, I like better looking guys and better personality guys. Boys who can put us in our place, boys who do not do what we tell them, boys who have a strong heart and macho traits, those are the boys I love, but right now have a lovely boyfriend, he might be few years younger then me but I fancy him dearly..I cannot think of making love to a guy who is chubby like that in your photo, its just not my type, and your facial features are not my type either.Am sorry to be blunt but honesty is best policy.

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• You definitely aren't ugly I can tell you that! You have very nice features but if you think losing weight will help you gain confidence go for it. Just make sure to do it in a healthy way.
• I would date you if you had an awesome personality (which includes being a nice human being, with confidence). Right now, you sound insecure, which is a turn off. The last guy I dated wasn't good looking at all and a dork, but he was confident and nice, and I really liked him.But you're wondering how to get attractive girls? First off, if you want chicks to look past the way you look, you should do the same for them. Though I don't really know if I count as "attractive" I've been told I am. You can be the judge (not the best picture, but all I have):http://s1091.photobucket.com/user/britts-NAY/media/meh/lala224_zps1e3c2820.jpg.html?sort=3&o=3So get some confidence (but don't get cocky) and stay nice, and the right girl will come. You can't let superficial stuff dictate you.