Scared of going under for surgery, help?

I'm 18 and graduated about a month ago. My weight is 150 kg ( 330 lbs ), before I start college I want to lose weight. I have tried multiple diets over the years and nothing seems to work! My dad had a restriction operation ( weight loss surgery ) a little over a year ago and he went from 170 kg ( 380lbs ) to 90 kg ( 190 lbs ) in that time period. So I convinced my parents that I needed to do this and they were on board from the get go! I went to meet the doctor a while back and I went for a blood check up and everything, I was very excited. Today we get a call from a receptionist telling us that the operation is on Wednesday ( 2 days from now ) and that I have to be in my hospital room the night before. At that very moment it was the most amazing news ever! Now, I'm very worried about the surgery and going under. In my country hundreds of people had this surgery because we have a lot of obese people, this comforts me. We rarely hear a story of someone passing away from this surgery. Also the same doctor who did the procedure on my father is doing it on me. I am also afraid of not waking up which sounds ridiculous I know but I'm just scared. However, I'm not scared enough to not want this but I just worried I guess. Ever since I was a kid I was bullied because of my weight, heck even my grandmother made fun of me. I don't have a lot of friends because I hate myself for being fat and so I don't appeal to other people. I was always quiet because being fat made me feel less of a person than anyone else due to the snarky comments and bullying. I hate being known as ______ the fat guy. I even turned down summer jobs I dreamed of as a kid because I'm afraid of being made fun as. I feel like I wasted a lot of my years because I was too ashamed of myself, and I want that to stop. So do you have any great tips to calm down? It will also help if you share a story about you or something you've heard related to this subject.

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However, I'm not scared enough to not want this but I just worried I guess. Your line sums it up!!! You go for it girl! It's really no different from going to the dentist and being knocked out while they take out a tooth. Think of all the terrible things people have to endure and live with and you have this opportunity to change your life. I know this is random but I just moved abroad and I've been feeling really down and lonely and I find that listening to my fave music REALLY CALMS me down. Maybe you should stick on a few upbeat tunes too? Seriously, chin up! I know it's scary but you just have to brave. Picture yourself strutting down the street in your new look! You can do it!!!!Good luck!!!

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• Ared you talking about the usa? If so, we certainly do have a lot of obese people. Id get the surgery if I were you, not that I would ever get that big. At least it will lower your risk of broken or severed limbs or possibly fatal death due to clogged arties ..etc. surgery seems fat more appealing that your weight shaddering from the weight..I guess... since you wanted an opinion..
• think like this:if you don't have this surgery you will stay obese for your life. people will call you fatso. nobody will notice you. nobody will want you. fat people are so huge, yet people look away as if they don't exist. fat is dirty, hangs on you as a parasitefat people die earlierballerina or beanbag?Fatso's are sooo disgusting!Fatso's are lonely because people don't want to look at themfatso's can't be lovedcell-u-lite or perfection?Fat people are ugly!but if you get this surgery then;you'll look prettier and guys gonna want youyou'll be able to run fasterskinny people get better jobsPeople will congratulate you on how much you've lostYou'll use less soap in the shower, and save moneyPeople won't think 'what a fat cow' when they see youThin people look good in ALL clothesyou'll have both inner&outer beautyYou'll feel more energeticYou'll look perfect on the outsideYou'll feel more confident and happyThin is inYou'll be free without the fatEverybody else will be enviousPerfect body = perfect soulHave you ever seen anyone not noticing a thin girl?You'll be able to wear mini skirts, without blurry legsFriends will envy your body, and admire youYou'll be able to be proud wearing a bikini!The word FAT will only be used in a sarcastic wayI'm 5'6 and 83 lbs.