No real question just need to vent about my miscarriage :(?

My husband and I have been trying to get pregnant for 4 years to have another child after our son, after me losing some weight and 3 months of the pill to get my periods back on track i found out in the beginning of march I was pregnant!! We were so happy. Until on our 3rd wedding anniversary i started bleeding and heavy. Like a period. No real "cramping" at all. I went to the hospital the next day and found out i was having a miscarriage.

Now almost a week later still bleeding and my heart is still hurting with many questions still unanswered. As in why? Or will i ever beable to get pregnant or have another child. I never thought this would happen to me.

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I never thought it would happen to me either. Especially since my first son was unplanned and we were teenagers!!
My husband and I have been trying for 18 months now for our second child. We finally fell pregnant only to miscarry a week later. I was devastated. I was a complete mess and until the bleeding stopped. It gets easier after that but each day but it is still a little difficult.
If you have any questions about the miscarriage itself it is best to discuss these with your doctor. No one will be able to tell you if you will have another child or not.
If you find that the situation has become overwhelming emotionally then you may need to to a counselor of sorts to help you with your grief.

Wishing you all the best and I really hope you have another child soon. Xx.

  • Sad. :( I just had a miscarriage too. I''ve been wanting another child since my daughter was a baby. She''s 4 now. We started trying in July of last year. I was so excited to find out I was pregnant. Then, devastated to learn I no longer was.

    No one can tell you why, and no one can tell you whether or not you''ll have more children. It''s just one of those wait and see things. But good luck to you. :)
  • Well, technically you''ve only been trying for as long as your weight was less, as far as your fertility goes, so try not to get discouraged. I know emotionally it seems like forever.

    If you had a m/c, chances are that the baby wasn''t put together right in the first place. However, all babies teach us something, even angel babies. What did you learn from yours?

    You should be able to have another child, you''ve already had one, so that greatly increases the likelihood that you''ll have another.

    I understand how hard TTC is, it took 2yrs for #1, and 3yrs for #2 for us (needed help for #2). I have been lucky enough not to suffer any m/c (that i''m aware of anyway).

    All you can do is take the time to mourn your loss, and to soldier on and keep trying for your little miracle. Good luck!
  • Yes, I know how hard it is and I''m sorry for you. Losing a pregnancy is always sad. I had 4 miscarriages, and it took me 10 years to finally have my two children. I had two miscarriages in the first year, then waited 3 years to fall pregnant with my daughter. Then another 4 years of nothing at all, then I had another 2 miscarriages. I gave up at that point - it was just too hard to keep on trying. I booked in for a tubal ligation - I decided I just wanted to forget all that TTC stuff. And just before I was to have that done, I conceived my son.

    You haven''t really be waiting all that long - wait for a couple of months and then try again. Good luck.

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