How to Lose Weight After Pregnancy
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I think you should join some clubs/sports to help make friends and to help gain confidence! I was like you in the eighth grade, but i went and joined soccer and theater and I connected with a lot of people! It really helped me find myself and find some amazing friends!Other Answers:
- Hey sweetheart(:So making friends , all you need to do is have a beautiful personality . Just be nice to people , and they will be nice back . Just try and make conversation with them . And about losing weight , just go to your docter and make a plan with him/her . Healthy diet and excericiseing is the main key . Don't stave yourself . Well , Im sorry that's not much but , I hope everything goes well hun(: xxTaylor <3
- Ok firstly, I totally get where you are coming from. I too had troubles making friends before but just this summer I went on vacation and there my way of making friends changed. I was with a friend on vacation and she is super outgoing and I have always wondered how she made friends so easily and that day I got to see it in person, she just came up to a group of guys that were talking about our home town and said oh you live there too? and then they just started talking then I came into the conversation and just started talking and asking questions and by the end of the trip we were all friends and now we are all friends on facebook so we can keep in touch. The point of this story is when people say to make friends just approach people they aren't kidding, it actually works! And asking people questions works really well as soon as you made the first move, don't make it sound like an interview just casually ask questions. And it wasn't just a one time thing either, today I started volleyball lessons and I started talking to a few girls and now I feel like I can approach them. To recap this relates to you because you can become more outgoing, your inspirational quote in relation to talking to people should be "just do it" because if you over think this you will end up not saying anything and that you will regret.Another tip is just be open to new people, if they seem shy invite them to sit with you at lunch, if they can't find their classroom help them find it, if they seem like they need someone to talk to, TALK to them!!As for you worrying about your weight, stop! How you look should have no effect on those who want to be your friend, however, if loosing weight will make you feel more confident I would suggest asking a very honest person (could be your mom, grandma, aunt, etc) about whether they think you HONESTLY need to loose weight, if they say yes then ask your parents about joining a sports class or joining a gym and eating decently healthy, this doesn't mean eating all healthy all the time it means limiting the portions of those not so healthy foods. If whoever you asked says no you do not need to loose weight listen to them and every time the thought pops into your head just tune it out with happy, positive thoughts. Also remember you ARE NOT ALONE I am sure any family member would be happy to talk with you about anything you need to talk about including your weight. This advice is coming from someone who also thinks that they aren't the skinniest, prettiest person in the garden but now everyday I am trying to own the way I look right now.Hope I helped and keep your head up and be confident because you are great and I am sure there will be people at your school who will see what i see too :)
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