Am I suppose to be the same size as this girl?

my stomach sags and isnt flat.. i would need to lose at least 30 to 40 lbs off my stomach before its completely flathttp://http://tinypic.com/view.php?pic=o77scx&s=5www.mybodygallery.com/photos-11071-body-shape.htm?StartAt=18#.UhbKFkR6eSL@Christopher.. my stomach still sags out.. your fiancé doesn't have a flabby stomach like mine..id still need to lose more weight than her to look smaller and the reason im so fat next to her.. is because i'm suppose to be smaller than her...ur fiancé is skinnier than me.. i am not suppose to be this fat.. even at 105 lbs i look pretty chunky ..right now im a 120a main reason i gave up on my diet is because i was at 105 lbs and still very unhappy with my body and looked super chunky.. i didn't know what to do.. but this is the second time around i'm on a weight loss diet where i eat very lean and very little.. i really think i need to go to the gym because just eating very little.. i still look fatthe photo of me is no doubt overweight.. 105 lbs.. im still pretty chunky.. 100... im fat.. but in the 90s is when i look thin and usually guys want to date me

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30 to 40 lbs is exaggerating greatly. With you bending it's hard to see, but looks like no more than 8 or 9 lbs of fat right from your belly, but even that seems like too much. Do this, purchase a 1 lb packet of ground beef, imagine purchasing 30 or 40 packs of meat and mushing it together, now compare that huge ball of meat and then look at your belly, now you should realize just how much fat that is and you certainly don't have that much on your belly, not even close.

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• some people are genetically bigger than other people you should be happy with who you are :)
• No, you shouldnt be. Thigh gaps are very unhealthy. That girl has a different height than you so you obviously shouldn't be trying to look like her.
• Nope, we are all not meant to be the same size. My fiance always asks me would she look better at 100lbs or less and the answer is no. She's got curves why be ashamed. You look fine to be honest don't stress so much your not fat not even close! You cant compare your self to other women, be your self! My fiance used to be 150 lbs back in high school that was not a healthy weight. I wouldnt stress over what you weigh. Stress could be why youve gained weight. Just relax and be your self!You shouldnt give up, just start working out again. My fiance she gained weight durring Christmas and she was so upset with her self she went from 108lbs up to 120lbs shes dropped 8lbs and looks fine. It takes discipline and motivation. I am her work out buddy we walk we jog we do weight training as well. We also splurge too lol but what you sound like you need is a good workout pal. Sometimes thats a lot of fun. Dont be so tough on your self you look fine right now I wouldnt lie to someone especially someone whos down about their weight.