And some men want to deny and say that girls call each other fat and men don''t. That is bs. Men always say they want slim women and say "no fat chicks"? Also men act like when women gain 20 lbs it is the end of the world for them.
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Are women to blame if a guy feels like a loser cus hes not rich?
- Anorexia in eating disorders in women has nothing to do with men. It has to do with the self-image a woman creates for herself.
- Sure why not. just blame men for everything. blame us for the food and the weather and a woman''s weight problems.
- I think it''s more complicated than that. Our culture is to blame in the sense that both men and women are socialized and taught to value skinniness in women to an excessive extent. We all participate in it.
- There can be many reasons a woman could develop anorexia. I don''t think men are the cause. There may be a few men here and there that contribute but I''ve seen even mothers cause it in their daughters, or low self images, public influences. All sorts of things. So it''s not a man caused illness, although it can be. I also know plenty of men who like a bigger female.
- No, I find that a most men are not into bone thin women. They like women with enough meat and not to look super bone skinny, like Kate Upton. Anorexia is a mental illness and they see a fat person when they look in the mirror, even though they are super skinny. 20 lbs extra would not be a healthy weight. As long as your range is within the BMI limits, you are not classified as overweight. It makes sense that a guy would not be attracted to a women who was over her BMI (in the healthy weight range) because that exceeds the right amount of a persons normal weight. Being thin is a man''s physical preference. You can''t change that men are attracted to thin women. I don''t think most men are attracted to anorexic women. I think very few (if any) find that to be attractive.
It''s really no one elses fault but your own if you are genuniely unhappy in your own body. Nobody but you controls your diet. There will always be someone better looking than you. You are in control of what you eat, not men. Thumbing me down and blaming others will not solve your problems or get rid of them.
Almost everyone gets called fat, unless you are bone thin. Some women ignore it, some take it personally, and other''s cut back eating. The ones that take it to heart are the ones who have eating disorders. - It''s the media''s fault for pushing a unhealthy image to young women. However men do propagate it to by only going after girls who have the unhealthy looks and habits. It is also the parents faults for not teaching girls to have more self esteem. It''s also the girls fault for being to shallow to realize being skinny doesn''t matter that much.
- no
- So hold on. It is our fault that we find healthy slim women attractive, so women take that and resort to starving themselves? So we are not allowed to have a preference because "they" put their obssession of vanity over their well being?
This is absolutely ridiculous. You are basically saying men are bad people for having a preference, and I will bet my left nut you have "never" thought of giving a really fat guy the time of day romantically with yourself, yet expect men to do it for women.
What the hell is it with you and "20 lbs". It''s a very specific and repeatative thing you are saying. I can only assume that you gained 20lbs, and your partner left you for it, so now you are complaining on here about it.
Grow up. Men can like what they like. If that makes women resort to making stupid decisions, then that is their fault. We want healthy skinny, not anorexic skinny. - No....poor self image is to blame.
- No, women can be just as judgmental to other women about body image
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