Is it a reasonable request if a woman asks her bf/husband to earn more money, that he asks her to lose weight?

This scenario was mentioned previously. She wants him to work more/second job and he does.He wants her to lose weight, and she is furious.

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Neo i asked two versions of this question yesterday. Don't even bother. Some how in societies head, men are suppose to have their own place, own car and enough money not only to survive but to start a family. That is if they want to date. Now, the woman. A woman doesn't have to live up the standards society sets. She can have choices and chose to look like a slob if she wants. People will defend her because they sympathize with a woman cause society "comes down hard on them if they are overweight and its not fair".So its basically ok to judge one person monetary worth in life and say they are worth it or worthless but its not okay to judge a person by something they pretty much have much more control over their weight, cause that would be an unfair judgment and has nothing to do with being a good wife. I gave up. What i find totally shocking and hypocrtical is that as a black male if I decide to date a girl who is white and so called fat i get judged HARSHLY. And people are like "here we go again". So I mean I shake my head at all the hypocrisy in America. Double standards are one thing but the double standards that apply to women seem to work if they benefit them. If they don't we must get rid of it. People can thumb me down, call me racist, sexist, i don't care. Everything I wrote is the 100% truth.

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• That is perfectly logical within reason.if she is fat ,lose the weight .if he is not making any effort to earn money,make more effort .if he is working hard enough now then she is thin enough.you get what you give as an adult on planet earth .
• Perfectly reasonable.Losing weight is easy. Just take whatever you're eating now, and reduce it.Working two jobs is hard.The least she can do for his sacrifice is put down the Double Whopper and eat a salad instead.
• It's not unreasonable... I should have told my ex to get another job AND lose weight... That would have probably ended our relationship much sooner than it did, and saved me from his health expenses, and all the debt he incurred that nearly bankrupted me.
• I have no idea about the scenario you mentioned. It sounds spiteful to me. I would not expect my husband to work another job, nor would I expect me to ask me to lose weight. The losing weight suggestion though is a personal attack on an appearance. Which is hurtful.
• ........ not to be mentioned that if she wouldn't eat so much, he wouldn't need a second job.......

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Easiest way for teen girls to lose weight?

We are 15 and 14, and we want to lose atleast 20 pounds before summer, we will exercise, but we dont have enough time to exercise more than an hour a day, and we are bad eaters, is there any way we could eat better without starving ourselves and just eating salad? HELP US, WE WANT BIKINIS. :D

- and yes, there is 2 of us.
-our parents wont get us gym memberships.

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Eat healthy and exercise. Do some resistance training along with cardio. But the most important thing is to EAT BETTER. There''s no way you''re going to get the bikini body you guys want without eating healthy. Don''t eat just salad, that''s the worst thing you could do to yourself and a terrible myth. Eat a round meal of carbs, vitamins and minerals (salad part), and protein. Don''t worry, girls don''t get "buff" by lifting weights or doing resistance training. There''s a function in the female hormone that suppresses muscle gaining, so you won''t get buff but you''ll get toned. If you don''t have more than an hour, commit a few days to cardio, then the other days to resistance. But if you don''t mind me asking, what do girls that are 14, 15 have that keeps them so busy they only have 1 hour?...Just a question.

Anyways, best of luck. And yes it''s gonna be hard as hell. But please don''t do anything stupid like starving yourselves. Good luck.

• gym class, i used to run one mile 4 days a week and 2 miles on wednesdays and kept myself skinny through high school, if you cant get a gym membership run around your neighborhood with your friend (or dog or someone, since its too unsafe now a days)
• Hey :) I''m 14 and currently on a diet.
  I have lost a few pounds by eating under 1200 calories a day. Here are some of the things I eat
  
  Breakfast
  Cereal w/ skim milk (Frosted flakes) - 170 calories
  2 boiled eggs - 140 calories
  2 pieces of Nature''s Own Wheat Bread toast with Polaner 5 calorie grape jam - 100 calories
  Instant oatmeal - 100 calories
  
  Lunch
  Turkey on Nature''s Own wheat - 175 calories
  Lean Pocket
  
  Supper
  Lean Pocket or Lean cuisine with english peas or green beans
  or chicken breast cooked different ways (not fried!!)
• Alison
  Turn on music and dance like wild. Let your hair down once in a while. Go back to the days of wild childhood. Close the door of your room, turn on your sound system to the highest volume possible (but a little lower than the level at which your neighbors start to complain) and then do the wackiest dance that you can think of. Jump on your bed and jump off it again. Roll all over the floor. Pretend that you are Michael Jackson or Madonna (you will never see them keeping still) and do ever boogie move that you know.

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